I would urge you to turn off your chat given that peoples comments are having such a strong effect on your well-being. However, while I myself try not to be rude, I don't mind people doing so. In fact, I have learned to appreciate people's honesty. As such, I'm loathe to support your cause, especially considering how much people differ in what they consider impolite.
get rid of impolite players
If you consider a propensity towards dishonesty and lying admirable attributes, for success you " might " be correct. However if you saw the financial news this Morning, you would note that your leader is taking the world into another ressesion.As for Brexit... you know nothing of the subject. My country is not in disarry, we will take a no deal Brexit. It provides for all that our country voted for in the first place.To make our on laws and decisions. As for our economies...Let's wait and see.
well the only time a person was rude to me (in a game) was a girl that called me a goatf**er XD and that like 1 game out of what 10000 so i dont know how you are choked by bad messages but hey maybe thats just your luck
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Lot's of silly Brits talk about "No deal is better than a bad deal!" That's because they have no idea what "No deal" means. They think it means everything goes on pretty much the same. Come day one, quelle surprise!
Silly Brits.... this from a country where 40% of the population believe the world is only 4,000 years old. Oh,that's just one example b.t.w.
well the only time a person was rude to me (in a game) was a girl that called me a goatf**er XD and that like 1 game out of what 10000 so i dont know how you are choked by bad messages but hey maybe thats just your luck
no doubt she was just jealous
I write here because I am really surprised by the amount of impolite players I meet on chess.com. I am choked by the messages I receive, especially on a chess plateform... if you feel the same, let's encourage chess.com developers to add a button to signal them and when they get a certain percentage of bad points, they receive a threat of cancelation of the account.
Peace to everybody
Nico, Switzerland
Choking? I get messages from strangers very rarely. Maybe it's because I used to have the same problem and I went into settings to disallow club or tournament invitations and I have turned off almost all notifications.
That sounds like you are curled up in a corner with your fingers in your ears. Personally I like notifications and don't like abuse and I don't think that is unreasonable. But I don't know the solution.
Come on, who wouldn't be turned on by thoughts of Their Angela in large, black boots?