Yes, if you haven't put thousands of hours of work into it, then it's just a game like any other.
Sure, it sounds crazy, but everyone has a hobby. From my POV it's better than being able to quote 10 seasons worth of game of thrones, or breaking bad, or whatever it is people watch today
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Would i have to deal with this in person? Of course not. Its the annonymity of the internet. So consider who youre dealing with.
I wouldn't put it past some people to try and use this excuse.
I've often seen this discussion about if life skills translate to chess skills. I don't know about the rest of chess, but when it comes to making lame excuses for failing, this is one life skill that many translate quite readily to chess.