You can set up whatever parameters you want to challenge other players with, live or CC. You may not find "chatty" or "talkative" opponents but you can always have the chess.com PC analyze your finished games and post them here in your own blogs and/or the game showcase forum to elicit other players comments.
As a Diamond member you can also set up "tailor-made" tnmts for yourself to take part in (along with others of course). I like making up thematic tnmts with openings I'm interested in learning.
And yeah, you need to start playing slower TLs to really improve your game. GOOD LUCK!
Hello everyone, I have never really been active in the community aspect of this site....and I wanted to get off my butt and try to change that. I am 25 male, and live in North Carolina. I have been slowly trying to improve my chess, and have had reasonable success.(In a large part thanks to tactics trainer and the wonderful videos.) But here lately I seem to be hitting a roadblock, and I would just love to play some longer time control games agianst an opponent who will go back over the game with me. To help me find my positional mistakes. Or if not that indepth, would just be rude enough to point out my blunders as they happen =-). It can be Live or correspondence. I just feel that I am not gaining anything through my normal 10 and 15 minute games.