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is there anyone out there that can help me to play better to look at my games and tell me where iam going wrong ,i can not now win a game

Collecting the basics doesn't take a lot of time, and will give you a lot of new ideas. Your play will also improve fairly quickly as you play more games with these ideas in mind. You can google each of the following terms and read about them (although for opening principals, just google "chess opening principals"). At the end is a link for a more detailed program.

 - Basic mates (K+Q vs K and K+R vs K)
 - Opening principals (the center, quick development, and castling)

 - Basic tactics (pin, fork, discovered attack, removing the defender)

 - Basic strategy (backward pawn, isolated pawn, doubled pawn, open files, half open files, mobility, king safety)

For a more detailed program:
https://www.chess.com/article/view/study-plan-directory

I dont hv to look at your games to tell you that you dont have a basic.  Remember, your foundation must be strong just like a house.  So master the basic.  So what is basic...mmmm....

1. Look at the whole board and its pieces (Dont just look at your pieces)
2. Check why my opponent did that move - is he/she attacking my pieces, is there a tactic, or whether there is a check threat (yes i meant check & it does not matter whether is it harmless or not) (always double check when you see a free piece just in case that is a trap)
3. Before moving your piece to the square you intent to move, check whether that square is being attacked, whether moving that piece allows your opponent a tactic.  
4. Learn tactic & recognise the Patern (this is a long term)
5. Learm end games tactic (this will help a lot)
6. Learn chess opening & understand them.  Memorising without understanding is kind of useless.
7. Learn pawn structures

I would recomend you do first 3 things i mentioned first.  Master that first.  There is no use of learning other thing but you blunder a piece in the game.  

(Continued from my first post)
That's the theory, for the practice the most important habit to form is the falsification of your candidate move. You have to look at all the forcing replies your opponent can play as a response that might immediately make your move a mistake. Forcing moves are checks, captures, and threats. Try not to lose even a single pawn.

Everyone looks for these moves sometimes, but you goal is to do it 100% of your times in 100% of your games. To better develop this habit you should play time controls that are long enough to give you a chance to do it.

 0110001101101000  has put in a very detailed and good way.