How do I control my anger after losing a game?

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YeahyersMcGooded

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

YeahyersMcGooded

Thanks, I needed this

Ashwin

can i have a fun trophy

Ashwin

fine sorry i will stop

wizardKM

Like a fungus!

MorningGlory84

If it's any consolation, I found that back rank check mate loss in your last match hilarious.

yahya797979
GM_PinoyProdigy wrote:

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

cry ah really you prefer to win? cry

 

even top 100 players of the world normally achieve 50/50, press the power on button or drink a coffee

Ashwin

but still guys spam me and give me trophys pls its for a challenge that me and my friend are doing where whoever gets most trophies wins

 

yahya797979
jproch wrote:
GM_PinoyProdigy wrote:

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

ah really you prefer to win?

Simple answer: If I'd live now 40 years ago, I'd throw out my computer out of my window. But as time has changed, at least here - I guess in your country as well, they will lock you now up into prison if you do that. Just accept you are loosing every 2nd game.  

even top 100 players of the world normally achieve 50/50, press the power on button or drink a coffee

 

Justusli

don’t lose

 

 

(jk) 

Though actually not at the same time

or create and alt and lose a ton of games and get used to it

yahya797979
reptism wrote:

but still guys spam me and give me trophys pls its for a challenge that me and my friend are doing where whoever gets most trophies wins

why should I challenge you reptiloid? No really change you name

 

nerdy_knight64

You don't..happy You should use it in the next game

sndeww
GM_PinoyProdigy wrote:

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

1.Recognize you are angry because you lost

2. Up to you how you act after this, we cant help. Normally I would stop playing but every once in a while I can't control myself and keep playing (and losing)

Mike_Kalish

James 1: 19-20

 

Lots of other answers here:
https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-anger.html

Justusli
B1ZMARK wrote:
GM_PinoyProdigy wrote:

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

1.Recognize you are angry because you lost

2. Up to you how you act after this, we cant help. Normally I would stop playing but every once in a while I can't control myself and keep playing (and losing)

Listen to B1ZMark

KevinMalone1018
Stepping out really helps, and then analysis
654Psyfox

Drink some Boba Tea.

Ian_Rastall

Primarily consider behavior that springs from anger and pride, i.e. the anger at yourself at doing poorly, and the pride involved in resigning. These can cause people to act out in chat, or to make somebody wait to win the game, and controlling that is primary.

jonnin

play the computer on max level until you get over it.  At some point you will see that losing is the best way to learn.  Most wins, all you learned from it is that your opponent messed up, or that you at most missed a faster win or some other opportunity.  But a loss, you know that YOU messed up, and you know what you were thinking, and can figure something out from it for next time.   Then pull that over to people ... losing to a person is a free lesson. 

HawkedEkko
GM_PinoyProdigy wrote:

This is a really bad problem for me, as I prefer to win. And so would everyone else.

I haven't cracked the code as well. I mean, when I make a stupid blunder that I shouldn't have made, than I get angry and I go on a losing streak