cute girl asks a question, gets more answers from more guys than she ever bargained for. That's the way of men.
Doesn't necessarily have to be a cute one but every single time a girl posts something that gets a few replies someone says that exact same thing you did, conveniently forgetting that meanwhile there are many dudes posting with 100s of replies and cute girls posting with zero replies lol
Plus the odds favors heavy catfishing
But if OP or anyone else have interested in Jacob Aagaard's Grandmaster Preparation Calculation let me know I have a pdf version of it
Maybe they're just looking for an excuse to say the girl was cute?
Solid advice on calculating by Taco dude
Bookwise I recommend The Inner Game of Chess by Andrew Soltis is really good for 1500-2000 if you like books and can get a copy I think you could benefit from it
do puzzles.