I get way too much enjoyment out of beating lower rated opponents

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Sometimes I spend hours just playing people in the 700-1500 rating range.  I'm 1700 blitz rating and 1800 bullet rating, so I can quickly crush these opponents ~95% of the time and go on a huge winning streak.

The problem is: as much as I enjoy crushing weaker opponents and showing off my tactical prowess, it's not actually getting me anywhere. All it does is feed my ego. It's not actually helping me to become a better player.

My goal is to achieve 2000 blitz and 2000 bullet rating by the end of this year, but I'll never achieve this goal if I just continue to play significantly weaker opponents. Yet still, I can't help myself. It just feels way too good to go on a winning streak, and feels way too demotivating to go on a losing streak and get crushed by better players all the time.

Does anyone else feel the same way? How do you get out of this mindset?

Avatar of ActuallySleepy
It’s fun for you and I’m sure a lot of lower rated players appreciate the opportunity to play a higher rated player. Seems to me it’s not really a problem.
Avatar of Yawn-khriztoph-Dodo

feed your need, I'm will to let you beat up on me.

Avatar of Ashvapathi

yeah, me too. I too got sucked into this bad habit recently (past few weeks). The thing is these games are just too much fun because I don't put any effort and yet win most of the games. I also get to try out all sorts of ideas and openings. It's just too much fun and feeds the ego. But, yeah, totally useless for improvement. 

Avatar of Jenium

Maybe helpful: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322#customerReviews

Avatar of stiggling

I do the same thing. I don't like winning streaks per se, but my longest is 83.

What I like is that when you play a much lower rated player your plans always work, and your inaccuracies are forgiven (because the opponent doesn't notice them). So basically all your moves feel pretty good.

How do you get out of this mindset? I dunno. After games where an equal or better opponent shows that some of my moves or ideas were bad, I can learn from that, and learning is fun too. I guess you have to decide what you want to do. If you've been working hard on improving for a while, maybe you just need a break, and have some fun beating easy opponents.

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justjackinit wrote:

Remember that chess is simply a board game designed to pass the time and have fun. And by crushing lower ranked players . . .

. . . you're having fun, so that means you should keep doing it.

Is the proper end to the thought you'd started out with, lol.

Avatar of Pulpofeira

My best memory in chess is when I drew a 400 higher rated player OTB, though.

Avatar of Theshallowend

It's what you learn will crushing them that's important try mixing it up.and sack your qween it beginning and see if you can beat them.  Also if you get beat by the weaker play it shows you weakness in your own game. And ratings are over rated it's what you know not what your  rating is.

Avatar of forked_again

It feels a lot better to beat someone around your own level or higher.  

1.  Yawn I beat someone I should have beat.  Ho hum

OR

2.  YES!  I played REALLY well!

Avatar of stiggling

Yeah, but it uses brain power to play someone near your level. If you're tired it's just annoying because you lose more games than win, and the ones you win were only because your similarly rated opponent did something dumb. So all your moves feel dumb.

But play while tired against a low rated person and all your moves magically work out tongue.png

Avatar of Chef-KOdAwAri
This type of behavior has show to be an addictive precursor to more serious sociopathic actions... once it has been learned, it’s repeated until that thrill is no longer strong enough... then practitioners seek out more potent action for their high... but hey, what do I know, I just teach the subject to college kids.
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Lenudan wrote:
This type of behavior has show to be an addictive precursor to more serious sociopathic actions... once it has been learned, it’s repeated until that thrill is no longer strong enough... then practitioners seek out more potent action for their high... but hey, what do I know, I just teach the subject to college kids.

 

I hope he is not one of those guys, but his enjoyment of playing against weaker players worries me a little bit.

Avatar of Deranged

LOL that people are comparing having fun wrecking others in a game of chess to being an actual real life sociopath.

Avatar of Theshallowend

Chess the gateway drug.