@youreacoward69
I think you're right when saying there is a psychological preference for those who don't want to do rematches, but honestly my reasoning is that if a person is unwillning to play for a rematch he is unwulling to play the full life of the game. I think people are just afraid to losew, and since they aere afraid to lose they don't play again. However it is not that deep, you win some, you lose some, and you keep playing. If you(not you but people in general) want to beat the more people then you need to play and improve the more.
That's how I view it. If you look at my archived games you can see a bunch of games I try to get rematched with, but even if not I don't hesitate to start a new game or rematch with another person, as again chess is a game, and there is no need to for too much thought, as such as we are doing an analtyical lab experiment, the only tihng we are doing is playing a board game. With this said I now do think it is physcological and in that case, I think it is a waste of energy if this is the case, and with this said the full life of the game is not being played either because of fear factors of losing(in which is more funny than ridiclous as that is how you improve) or pride(in which is equally as ridiculous or worse, as it is not a matter of how a person thinks how good he/she are, when they are not, but a matter of how great they are). I can definitley so I am not a strong player. I am solid, but a strong player is someone who can consistently beat IM's. If someoen can do that, consistently then they earn my respect, otherwise people can lose rather simply as it doesn't take much.
I guess this is why I have the way of thinking when it comes to accepting rematches.
I have a photographic memory and I analyze all my games. Out of 100 games? Probably. Varies on a lot of factors such as if the opponent only knows a few openings, same amount of time spent for each move, lots more. I've played 15000+ chess matches irl to notice similarities you wouldn't.
Photographic memory doesnt exist, memory is a constructive process. Whatever, I wont debate that, lets assume that you do. The point is that you can differentiate the same player playing two different colors against you vs a new random player. You might do a bit better, but to say there's this significant difference between the two is outrageous, even by your own words where YOU stated 99.9% of all games are novel positions. Why are you fighting so hard?