I'm in the mood, for chessing!



Though I am not a psychologist I would imagine that the reasons are two fold. For one thing we are social by nature, and though we are playing a game with another person on line it can feel sort of flat without some form of interaction with the other person. Another reason may be more related to our 3 dimensional world. A real chess board and pieces both feel and look so different, alive even, but the Internet is still a one dimensional atmosphere. The board and pieces appear flat, and literally lack feeling.
One thing I've noticed, with this online chess milarky, is that I find it much harder to get into my "chess" mood. My playing style tends to rely on positional play and just a general "feel" for the game, instead of thinking too many moves ahead.
This tends to mean I can sometimes play really well, without ever really analysing why, but then if I'm not in the right frame of mind it can easily turn to disaster. (though I'm quite a low-level chess player in the first place)
Basically, I was wondering if any of you other peeps have the same problem, and how you get yourself into that chessy mood, or if you can just automatically play well. Half the time I feel like I'm battling myself as much as my opponent...