WINNERS are too BUSY to be SAD,
too POSITIVE to be DOUBTFUL,
too OPTIMISTIC to be FEARFUL,
and too DETERMINED to be DEFEATED.
Do you think that the first GM on this earth had a coach. Well, I would like to quote from the book "The Blind Side" of which a movie with the same name has also been made. The quote refers to the poem "The Charge of the Light Brigade" by Alfred, Lord Tennyson:
"Courage is a hard thing to figure. You can have courage based on a dumb idea or a mistake, but you are not supposed to question adults or your coach or your teacher. Because they make the rules. Maybe they know the best or maybe they don't.It all depends on who you come and where they come from. Didn't at-least the six hundred guys think of giving up and joining with the other side.I mean The Valley Of Death! That's pretty salty stuff. That's why courage is tricky, should you always do what others tell you to do. Sometimes you might not even know why you do something. I mean any fool can have courage. But honour, that's the real reason you do something or you don't. Its who you are and maybe who you want to be. If you die trying for something important then you have both honour and courage and that's pretty good. I think that's what the writer was saying, that you should hope for courage and try for honour and maybe even pray that the people telling you what to do have some too".
With so many chess books and training sources around, why is it that many people emphasise on having a chess-coach?
I have heard it again and again and again that it is a MUST to have a good chess coach if you want to have a very good rating or become an IM or a GM or even an FM.
But they charge lot of fees. Some people cannot afford it. So can these people never fulfill their aim?
I think that if a player has good determination and is ready for hard work, then he can surely do it wothout a chess-coach.
What do you say?
Can anyone please give me an example of someone who has succeeded without the help of a chess coach? any self made IMs or GMs out there.........?