It's been scholastic focused for quite a while now I think. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe even G/30 games affect your regular rating!
The copied account sounds like the worst of everything, and I'd blame the TD the most. There are bad mannered kids, but in my experience the great majority of them are respectful and well behaved.
It may be that in U1200 sections they've had no guidance. This seems especially likely to me if the parents aren't tournament players.
by markmenser on Mon Sep 07, 2015 1:59 pm #299348
Ok, first let's clear the deck. I am a 65 year old , cranky, old white guy. I was raised in an era where children were taught how to behave in public, where children were taught what a Kleenex is, and where helicopter parents were few and far between. Before you jump to conclusions, however, be advised that I spent 30 years coaching youth soccer and baseball, I am involved in mentoring and by no stretch of the imagination am I "anti-children". Now to the issue.
It is readily apparent that the USCF has become obsessed with children. An examination of the Tournament Life postings shows virtually nothing in the way of adult events and an overwhelming number of "scholastic" events. Why is this upsetting?
I just participated in a tournament that was supposed to be separate and apart from a simultaneous "scholastic" event. The tournament hall accommodated both regular and scholastic games. An examination of the hall revealed adult players seated at the tables, studying the boards. Meanwhile, the children were running around the hall as though it was recess at the elementary school. They were up-and-down, in and out of their chairs. As they ran up and down the rows they were constantly bumping, elbowing or kicking the chairs of other players. The majority of them seemed to have colds, since they were (grossly) making snot-sucking noises and sneezing (without handkerchiefs) , and the wiping their snot on the chess pieces. The kids formed little groups, and roamed around as such examining each others' games and whispering and pointing. One of my young opponents repeatedly left the board, only to have his pals sit down in the chair opposite me pending his return. He always returned with the correct move despite being rated under 1200 (playing "up").
The noise and disruptions finally reached a crescendo, so I got up, left the hall, and reported the problem to the TD. The TD asked the children into the hallway outside the playing room, at which time he and I were attacked by screaming "helicopter parents" who called me a liar, accused me of swearing at their children, and screamed that the purpose of t he tournament was to encourage children and not to accommodate "old white people". (A racist term I am frankly sick of hearing.) These same helicopter parents, of course, hogged the "pairings board" so players could not see their board assignments, actually photographing the board while charting their child and every other player in the section. The TD was besieged with irate parents who screamed at him and actually threatened lawsuits when their little darling was, in their opinion, matched with an "unfair" opponent or had the black pieces too many times. All of this clamor, again, surrounded kids age 7-12 playing in the oh-so-important U-1200 and U-1400 sections.
I was feeling threatened by some little-league dads who were angry at me for objecting, and I withdrew from the tournament . I went to play chess, not get screamed at, hit or clawed by some "chess mom", or assaulted by little-league dad. One person smiled wryly at me and said "It's kids, just accept it."
I will not . I am a dues paying USCF Member and I pay the same tournament entry fee (or more) than these children. Kids have rights but so do I. Too many adults refuse to speak up out of fear of ridicule or being branded. I am not afraid, but I am angry. I have written to Chess Life on this topic several times, but the letters are never published and there is no response.
Perhaps it is time for the USCF to change its name to the "UNITED STATES CHILDREN'S CHESS FEDERATION" and stop soliciting dues and contributions from anyone over the age of 30. When it becomes physically dangerous to go to a chess tournament it is time to spend my money elsewhere.
markmenser