We do get another thing in the public forums here though and it happens in the clubs too.
Long combative exchanges of consecutive posts with many nested quotes within them -between particular pairs of members - a kind of verbal chess game.
Obviously - other people are going to react in various ways to such contests. And do.
But then another behaviour happens - including from whatever pair of members
where one or both of them attempts to supervise other members reactions to their 'game'.
Attempts to insist that others shouldn't comment or remark about the exchange or to make sure that others should not include their names in such comments or mention past mutings.
Or an attempt to assign a double standard whereby options to make such comments are to be reserved to one or both of that pair and others are not to do so.
And also that others are to Not 'talk back' to them.
Clubs seems to exist mainly a fashion accessory for their owners, some of whom are on power trips. Regarding mentioning past mutings, I can think of one person whom you revere, who insists that he has NEVER been muted, whereas obviously he has.
What is your attitude to my "talking back" to you in this way? Are you ok with it? Good.
A person just made another misleading post as he so often does.
D hadn't been muted. And unlike that person - D doesn't tell falsehoods.
The single mute came later. How?
Perhaps a new moderator who wasn't in the know about O - who doesn't want it known that he just came off a three month mute.
Also - my post was general - it didn't name anybody.
It still doesn't.
Whereas the O person wants a 'you and me' exchange.
What happened recently was unfortunate because an innocent but new person arrived who didn't know what was going on ...
And now time to find a good post to respond to so as not to feed the --- (whatever)
We do get another thing in the public forums here though and it happens in the clubs too.

Long combative exchanges of consecutive posts with many nested quotes within them -between particular pairs of members - a kind of verbal chess game.
Obviously - other people are going to react in various ways to such contests. And do.
But then another behaviour happens - including from whatever pair of members
where one or both of them attempts to supervise other members reactions to their 'game'.
Attempts to insist that others shouldn't comment or remark about the exchange or to make sure that others should not include their names in such comments or mention past mutings.
Or an attempt to assign a double standard whereby options to make such comments are to be reserved to one or both of that pair and others are not to do so.
And also that others are to Not 'talk back' to them.