need tip about mental and tilt cause bad opponent behavior

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foxar0384

You are saying very strange things. Resigning in a clearly losing position is not only a demonstration of respect to the opponent's skill,  time and mental resources, but also respecting and saving your own time and resources. If you dream of games that will only end in mates, you need to review your expectations, or you will tilt forever. 

nTzT
foxar0384 wrote:

You are saying very strange things. Resigning in a clearly losing position is not only a demonstration of respect to the opponent's skill,  time and mental resources, but also respecting and saving your own time and resources. If you dream of games that will only end in mates, you need to review your expectations, or you will tilt forever. 

It really seems that some people cause their own frustration... no one can force you to play a completely lost position and bully you. Just resign, study the game a bit and move on to the next one.

People always seem to make issues where there are none.

kakouloukiya
ElliottLayne a écrit :

If you already lost, and have no chance on a draw, why dont u resing? and why you assume he is trying to humiliate you to have a revenge on his failures of life? if u tilt on an unraked game that much to say this kind of things about your opponent , then u seem to have anger issues

You are right about anger issues, but again, tell me why opponent didn't checkmated me normally (yes you don't have the game) when he promotes, first in knight then proceed to get it in 1st rank, then promote a bishop and do the same, and he was continuing until he had probably all the piece he wanted, he extend the game just to humiliate me and i know it cause i speak to him after i realize he just didn't wanted play for the game but play for the opponent.
I played an unranked to test something new, to train, i wanted to train an opening with white,
but people i playing resigned after few move, then i get this guy, and i get black.
My though process was: hmm, bad i can't play white but i can train with black vs a good opponent, then i blunder so hard and tested bad line and was i deserve... to get humiliated because i didn't play good ?????

Shaka_4_life

bro just dont get angry its just chess 

nTzT

You blundered a whole piece then your queen and chose to play on, I don't fault the guy for playing around with you since if you don't resign that's on you. You are disrespecting your opponent yourself thinking that he can't win with an insane amount of material with most of his time left in a rapid game. 

nTzT

It's an unranked game, you blundered a piece and a pawn... why waste time playing on? Baffling.

Interpol_evil666
nTzT menulis:

You blundered a whole piece then your queen and chose to play on, I don't fault the guy for playing around with you since if you don't resign that's on you. You are disrespecting your opponent yourself thinking that he can't win with an insane amount of material with most of his time left in a rapid game. 

Nice game for your opponent

kakouloukiya
nTzT a écrit :

In his mind you are the one trolling since you refuse to resign, in your mind he is the one. Just resign, move on to the next game. I am not sure why this upsets you, you choose to play a completely lost position and it's just caused you to get upset and even spend time making a thread about it on the forum.

You choose to spend energy on nonsense and this will only stop you from improving. 

I don't know, just enjoy the pleasure of ending a game, people forget you can play until you get checkmated or what.
You want something funny, it's i know people like you will post this kind of answer cause they like, hmmm, this noob tell non sense, he's stupid, i will just give my answer to put him in the right way and if didn't understand that, he's just a dumb, stupid guy who just cause his own failure.
it's like nobody, getting frustration about a situation they didn't expect, it's like I'm the only one who are stupid or what and face.
And the worst and i know this kind of situation can happen, but i wasn't expecting that when i playing an unranked game with higher player.

SpacePodz

Why are you getting so mad? You've been arguing in the comments about something that's not a big deal. It wasn't even rated. You say he "humiliated" you. He just did a little trolling, that's it. You said you spoke to him afterward too. Why are you taking some guy trolling so seriously man. I'm not trying to be rude, but this just isn't that big a deal. I've had worse done to me and just laugh it off, just a game my guy.

nTzT

I don't think I am better than you, I am just saying something you need to hear. You are upsetting yourself over nothing. Some people view you playing on as disrespectful. I think it's fine, but you need to know that you are only causing trouble for yourself. 

kakouloukiya
nTzT a écrit :

You blundered a whole piece then your queen and chose to play on, I don't fault the guy for playing around with you since if you don't resign that's on you. You are disrespecting your opponent yourself thinking that he can't win with an insane amount of material with most of his time left in a rapid game. 

What can i say, if you think i don't know i can resign in lost position you're just stupid
i resigned this game, but people like you don't understand my topic and just want to put me down, you don't want to tip me about the mental situation, you just want to put me down, what you're point sincerely cause i'm sure you consider me stupid .
Actually, i just realize, i'm trying to defend myself when the topic need other answer than this stupid answer.
You're happy now about yourself????

nd0003
BISHOP_e3 wrote:

kakouloukiya,

Perhaps your opponent prolonged the game because he didn't like the photo of you giving him the finger.

If we play a game I promise not to do what he did.

I will promote my pawns to bishops.

LMAO

kakouloukiya
SpacePodz a écrit :

Why are you getting so mad? You've been arguing in the comments about something that's not a big deal. It wasn't even rated. You say he "humiliated" you. He just did a little trolling, that's it. You said you spoke to him afterward too. Why are you taking some guy trolling so seriously man. I'm not trying to be rude, but this just isn't that big a deal. I've had worse done to me and just laugh it off, just a game my guy.

XDDDDDDDDD, you guys are stupid, you think it's just about this game and nothing else, but wtf, I tell you i get hyper frustrated after this game, because it was an UNRANKED game and didn't expect it was turning like this, but you didn't seem understand the whole point.
This kind of situation can happen outside of chess, and for me i get hyper frustrated when i get humiliated like that, cause the game at the end one just about this point, and you think it was just a troll, i'm think i was naive but at this point, it's just absurd.

snow

idk it's just chess, dont be so titled about it

foxar0384

Dude, these answers have nothing to do with other's perception of your skill or intellectual abilities. This guy's stalling is mean somewhat, but it was you to allow to do this to yourself. If you are in a situation where you are being bullied/abused/having bad time, and it's in your full power to quit this situation, just quit it. 

nTzT

You are calling people stupid when you can't even string a coherent sentence together and you call your opponent "looser". You are just a sore loser. 

kakouloukiya
foxar0384 a écrit :

Dude, these answers have nothing to do with other's perception of your skill or intellectual abilities. This guy's stalling is mean somewhat, but it was you to allow to do this to yourself. If you are in a situation where you are being bullied/abused/having bad time, and it's in your full power to quit this situation, just quit it. 

here, it's a good answer, cause you understand the topic and you answer me like i needed.

But some people just want know they are superior to other and tell them, their truth.
It's funny cause, i know i was getting attacked even if i'm the victim, and i didn't describe myself like that cause i just wanted answer to know what to do when you're frustrated about this kind of situation.

kakouloukiya
nTzT a écrit :

You are calling people stupid when you can't even string a coherent sentence together and you call your opponent "looser". You are just a sore loser. 

xd and you talk about people who put them into bad situation themselve.

"People always seem to make issues where there are none." You are losing you calm cause one guy telling you're stupid .
You put yourself in this situation, why do you answer me, cause you don't want help me man, your answers proof this point.
In early, you attacked me on my naivety, my disrespectful attitude, my stupid reasoning, now on my grammar, and insult me .
Who need to speak for yourself man, sincerly .

Joel_Jelly
kakouloukiya wrote:
nTzT a écrit :

You are calling people stupid when you can't even string a coherent sentence together and you call your opponent "looser". You are just a sore loser. 

xd and you talk about people who put them into bad situation themselve.

"People always seem to make issues where there are none." You are losing you calm cause one guy telling you're stupid .
You put yourself in this situation, why do you answer me, cause you don't want help me man, your answers proof this point.
In early, you attacked me on my naivety, my disrespectful attitude, my stupid reasoning, now on my grammar, and insult me .
Who need to speak for yourself man, sincerly .

He has a point though I don't know wtf you are trying to say

ninjaswat

Yeah, one time me and one of my friends were doing XXL chess... It was obvious I was winning so I took all of his pieces, promoted almost all my pawns to queens. He doesn't care, we both had a lot of fun doing that. If chess isn't making you have fun, then stop, take a break. It's not about rating, it's about enjoyment. A higher rating allows for more enjoyment.