i'm personally just trying to learn the game, so i give anything a go. never used a database so guess i don't play with much theory. one day i will though maybe. i feel that it would be a good idea, an more fun, to try figure it out for yourself first.
I'm trying to learn to drive, but first I need to build a vehicle and some roads.
Well , I think that better is the guy who tries to play " and see what comes out" than another who playes 1.e4 ,but has no clue why does he play it , and what is it for .
Sure, it is silly to play something by rote and not know why. Doesn't mean you ought to re-discover chess completely.
If you pay bills and can't spend more than 1-2 hours a day on chess, leveraging off the expertise and history of others to help you play more effectively is not such a bad idea.
The "figure it out for yourself" approach is perfectly sound ... just that it appears a bit inefficient unless you combine it with some necessary verification procedures after you get stuck/confused.
For instance:
Trying to guess the moves of one side of a Master vs Master game => Good!
Figuring out why the played move was played instead of your own move by using reference material or seeking out a coach => Better!
or just play because you find it fun. rather than taking it so seriously. learn from your mistakes an move on. so what if people are better, or care more about being good. its just a board game at the end of the day
There is always going to be somebody out there better than you, and at the end of the day your rating is nothing more than insignificant numbers on a computer screen relating to a board game.
Play for the purpose of having fun, not winning.
Gabran, I'm mostly with you. I only know certain openings from the games I have played here-and I still don't know their names. Playing games with memorized openings doesn't seem too fun. You could have two players making automatic moves into a seemingly automatic endgame.
Plus, if you play in tournaments, and play the same opening time after time, someone will notice and figure a way to beat that opening.