@ ivandh
I think he means hanging pieces to one movers for no compensation... and yeah that has to be in every one's control.
@ gbidari
Sometimes it slips the mind that the levels of seriousness with which players take the game are as varied as the levels of skill. Some players (apparently) don't mind dropping pieces, while others spend several hours a day for many months refining a pet opening variation or with a subset of a subset of endgame technique. The enjoyment of the game has little to do with raw skill for all of us.
I feel like I'm being sold a self-help book-- all I need to do is create a plan and stick with it and all my problems will go away! And I should please ignore the reasons that cause people to fail, those are just b.s.! By the way I am lazy!!
The good news is I'm not selling anything, it's free. No not all of your problems will go away, but the dropping of pieces problem will! You say you're lazy. Well that explains why you keep trying to undermine my advice (something you're not lazy at by the way.) This advice is not suited for the weak of will. You get out of chess what you're willing to put into it.