oh and now i realized what i just said makes me sound really snobbish & condescending
serious vs non-serious chess player
Well, I think people can manipulate their ratings. For what reason, I do not know. But I am an honest 1300 (or so), and I routinely get my butt kicked by 1600+ players. 2000's? I don't stand a chance. I have played players in the 1400 to 1500 range that regularly kick my butt, and then all of sudden, they play like 900's (no offense to 900's), and all of a sudden I am winning. So if you are a 1300 beating or drawing 2000's, then there is something amis in my estimation.
acuually it more like i practice alot but dont play in most rated tournaments cause i am a junior and our juniour tournaments are good but i hardly gain any rating points from them
So you don't play in tournaments because you don't gain any ratings points? Are rating points more important than tournament experience?

okay i am just making this forum post to compare the difference between serious and non serious chess players.
an experience i have with this subject would be that i was screwing around with chess and stayed at around 1700 cfc preferred that is (my actual was 1300 but i am still underrated) 2 months ago i started to take it a little more seriously and my pref. jumped from 1700-2000ish and sry to be using preferred for this cause my rating is far to underrated to us (do you know any other 1300 that can draw a 2200 fide) so basically what i am trying to say is what is your opinion about this, is there really that big of a difference or is it only experience.