sure are a lot of cheats on this site

If you suspect your opponents of using disallowed resources, you should report them.
https://support.chess.com/article/209-how-do-i-report-someone
The site treats fair play violations seriously, and closed over 20,000 accounts last month.
https://www.chess.com/article/view/chess-com-month-in-review-december-2021
That said, discussions of cheating, potential cheating,band cheat detection ate not allowed in the general forums. If you would like to discuss, join the following club: https://www.chess.com/club/cheating-forum