Wanting to be the best at a board game is a silly thing for an adult to aspire to and be consumed with. This is why most adults give up the game as a serious pursuit (keeping it as a hobby) and only those with arrested development keep plugging away.
You can barely put a coherent argument together, yet you describe individuals "immeasurably" more intelligent than you as people with "arrested development"? You are barely fit to fry food at McDonald's. Go get a reality check!
So you think Wesley so was bad to his parents ( for abandoning college) but he didn't do anything wrong to his teammates and coaches in Webster?
I am done trying to explain it to you. He abandoned the team by leaving college. It wasn't college that he abandoned. I worked part-time and went to school part-time but I always took at least one class. Eventually I graduated.