thing is i also just started playing tournament games so that might be where the cheaters are be careful guys
why is everyone cheating

The perception of cheating levels is orders of magnitude more than the actual amount. The vast majority of games and players are clean
If you report someone and they don't get closed after a few days then either
- There's insufficient evidence of cheating
- There's no evidence of cheating
https://support.chess.com/article/648-what-do-i-need-to-know-about-fair-play-on-chess-com
https://www.chess.com/article/view/online-chess-cheating
https://www.chess.com/article/view/chesscom-update-january-2025#FairPlay
The site closed more than 91,000 accounts in December for fair play violations and has a full team of staff working on reports along with some automated systems for detection.
https://www.chess.com/article/view/fair-play
That said, discussions of cheating, potential cheating, or cheat detection are not allowed in the general forums. If you want to discuss join the following club
https://www.chess.com/club/cheating-forum
In half of my games, people play like literal grandmasters, so my rating was like 400. Now, I got like 4 messages from chess.com saying they caught cheaters and I'm back up a little bit. I mean, maybe they're just really good, but what person would have a game equivalent to 2250 Elo at the Elo of 750?!