My point is that if the object of the game was to take the king then if you allowed your king to be captured it should be a loss. My interpretation of the way the game is finished is that you have to force the king to surrender, not actually capture him.
Do you mean allowing it as being checked?
Because that's exactly why we block it or move out of it.
It just seem so logical to me:
The king gets attacked - you move out of it.
It basically makes no difference in the gameplay whether the aim is to trap the king or to capture; you'd still do the same to avoid it.
I disagree with the title above, "Why stalemate should be a win".
It's stalemate that keeps the winning side on their toes and gives hope to the losing side. When stalemate is actually a tactic, it can create a magnifcent masterpiece.
Anyway, just for all to know, stalemate IS a win in Chinese Chess (I play chinese chess, too).