Is your life so constructed that a few minutes to wait for victory is inconceivable?
After the 6th game where I'm left to wait after the guy disconnects, yes, it's extremely frustrating. And it's not just waiting until the clock runs out, because another familiar tactic is to disconnect, wait one minute and then reconnect, make a move and disconnect again. If you aren't watching the board like a hawk after disconnection, your opponent wins on time.
After the 5th consecutive time of having an opponent disconnect when in a losing position, and making me sit there and run out the clock for several minutes, I decided to curse out the opponent AFTER HE DISCONNECTED. This, of course, prompted the computer to kick me off of live chess. I understand and fully appreciate the requirement to be civil--in fact, I insist on it and think it is a good policy. HOWEVER, the site needs to implement a "forfeit on disconnect" policy like ICC has. There are far too many people that disconnect when in a losing position instead of resigning, and ruin the experience for the rest of us. I even had one fellow admit that he was running out the clock just to upset me.
Please Chess.com, implement a forfeit-on-disconnect policy ASAP. I am a paying member, and am thinking of switching to ICC / Chesscube permanently only because of this issue.
Thanks.