starting a game
Welcome, knorq.
to play a live chess game with a friend, first, add your friend to your friend list. go to their chess.com user page. For example, your user page is this:
http://www.chess.com/members/view/knorq
your friend's user page should be this:
http://www.chess.com/members/view/yourfriendsusername
at the right, you'll see a box titled "actions." Click on "Add to my friend list" to send a request.
after they accept your request, both of you log into live chess:
see the green menu bar above? Play/Live Chess
In there, on the right bottom window, you'll see a "friends" tab. Your friends who are online and logged into live chess are visible there. You can send them a challenge.
To challenge a friend to online chess, simply go to their chess.com user page and click on "challenge to play" in the actions box on the right.
as a general guide to using the site, check out these links:
http://www.chess.com/site_demo_video.html
http://www.chess.com/sitemap.html#guide
http://www.chess.com/help.html
If you need help, please contact our Help and Support team.