Try to don't do something else while you play?
Also avoid the fast games, becouse they reinforce bad tactics, and as sometimes you win you may think they are good moves and mess up your game. Fast games are for really good players. Maybe part of your problem is that the time presure is forcing you to play bad.
I am OK at looking a couple turns into the future, but most games I just end up losing material stupidly, like moving a knight in front of a bishop and not getting anything from it. This usually happens when I am doing something else while I play, and I always realize it as soon as I drop the piece... Any help is appreciated.