It's been 5 days and no response from chess.com. Do you (chess.com) think that your default settings are doing "the right thing" here? The suggestion from @alexm2310 seems a practical possibility.
Did you write in to support directly? They don't always read these forums and one of the most active moderators is reportedly out for injury leave.
Even if they did read it, I don't know if they would grant a waiver. Or perhaps they did read it and the lack of any change indicates they didn't agree.
It's been 5 days and no response from chess.com. Do you (chess.com) think that your default settings are doing "the right thing" here? The suggestion from @alexm2310 seems a practical possibility.