my wild guess is; people who lose to me is just randomly reporting me, trying to do kind of damage.
I come across tons of stallers, abandoners and cheaters everyday, people are just like that. you should check those reports before deciding if it was real.
My chat is disabled since day i registered here, how can i talk to someone while my chat is disabled? I have no friends and i dont send nor receive any private messages due to my settings..
Please elaborate chess.com. What are you talking about?