why is all of my friends not playing with me?

Do you mean chess.com friends or real-life?
If chess.com, I think most people have a kind of situation. However, they usually don't mind it. A friend is of very little difference compared to a regular fellow chess.com member, except that it's easier to find them, challenge them, read their notes, etc.
As for possible reasons, any of the following may be the reason:
- no time
- no energy
- different time zone (hard to play when you're asleep)
etc.
Hope this helps!

i had 6 friends that does not want to play with me,but why?i have been very nice to them and also tried to get them to like me by being polite,could anyone give me some posible reasons why?
Internet friendships are as easy to ignore as to forge them.

Do you mean chess.com friends or real-life?
If chess.com, I think most people have a kind of situation. However, they usually don't mind it. A friend is of very little difference compared to a regular fellow chess.com member, except that it's easier to find them, challenge them, read their notes, etc.
As for possible reasons, any of the following may be the reason:
- no time
- no energy
- different time zone (hard to play when you're asleep)
etc.
Hope this helps!
i mean chess.com friends VULPES_VULPES.
And that's what I was talking about.