i want to play 15 minute but no one plays it
Best Rapid Time control?

If your opponent gives you a few difficult choices in a 10min game, you’re either going to time out or pick the wrong choice.
A nice middle ground is 15|10.
The increment gives you enough time to think, but there is still risk of timeout.

there is? i feel like 10 second increment is way too much. In the opening u really only take like maybe 5 seconds a move and ur gaining time instead of losing
Unfortunately the only popular rapid time controls here are 10 minute and 15+10 and neither of them fit both categories. But in 15+10 even though you will never run out of time due to increment there will still be time pressure