I know you won't believe this but there are many pages giving advice for people who experience connection problems with Dota. If the Dota servers are so impeccable, why do they exist?
Some of the same advice may help you fix your connection problems with Chess.com.
They recommend using a wired connection, power cycling your router, various things.
https://thedroidguy.com/dota-2-connection-issues-1155619
https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/669A-2F68-D1D1-A5EC
i can have a stable connection for hours, play many games of dota with a completely stable connection but guaranteed once i play live chess this triggers a wifi disconnect. i would say if i play 3-4 5m blitz games i will have 1-2 wifi disconnects
has anyone else had this problem or would know where to begin troubleshooting this problem?