I like chess when I don't have anything better to do, and thats not too often recently :)
I don't have any ambition at the moment to become a chessmaster though.
Sometimes when you win you loose. Sometimes when you loose you win.
I love chess, but it will never be the most important thing to me.
After having been her 3-4 months, I have decided to make some changes, and limit or completely drop out of online chess games since I don't have the time or patience to wait days for a move or have an obligation to make moves to avoid a "timeout". I also find online chess less "honest" as 3 days or more is plenty of time to find the perfect move and so favors those with more time and not necessarily the better player. I also find it annoying to have to get myself in the mindset and focus of what I was doing every time I have to move again. I think its a waste of time.
Therefore I will start to focus on the 10 and 15 minute games, which I am not as good at but which fits my time schedual and style better.
I am sorry in advance for any inconvenience this might cause "friends" or "teammates" but I feel I am spending far more time on chess recently than its sensible for me to do at the moment.