Maybe you should try the Semi-Slav as Black against 1. d4. It's hard to learn at first, but it's very tactical. I played it for awhile, but switched to the pure Slav because it's more positional (and I prefer that).
As for dealing with 1...e5, you could try some gambits. Maybe the Scotch Gambit or the Danish Gambit. You could also try the Vienna Game, which I heard an IM describe as a "souped-up King's Gambit." However, I think you should try the Ruy Lopez again. Sure, it's positionally rich, but it can often get quite tactical. Don't be too quick to reject an opening. I did that for awhile and it's very frustrating. Try playing an opening and sticking with it; you'll get better at it over time. Here's a crazy Ruy Lopez game. I don't know how good it is, but it certainly seems in Tal's style:
I'm a highly tactical player trying to improve my positional understanding and I've been through a lot of c4, d4 and e4 openings.
As white, I'm an e4 player. I'm okay against c5, c6, e6 and various other opening.
As black, I'm currently playing the French defence as black against e4 (have been playing sicilian dragon heavily until recently) and the Kings Indian Attack against d4 and c4.
However, I'm looking for two openings:
1) As white against 1. e4 e5. I've tried ruy lopez, italian, four knights, kings gambit and a few more. None suit my style though.
2) As black against 1. d4. I've tried KIA, dutch, QID and a few others. Again, none suit my style.
Ideally I'd like these openings to be highly tactical and if possible similar ideas/themes in different variations, so I can improve my positional understanding of the openings.
Any suggestions?