but seriously zomby.. your virtual chatup to trysts was hilarious.. still giggling over that one... the latter one was funny also, though a little too graphic for the kiddies here I think... I'm sure it would also get many a good laugh in your own group/s...
Chess Player of the Month August 2010

the irony Babs is that the sexual content in the message I deleted is a thousand times less destructive than the bitter postings which are pervasive in this forum and accepted as "ok for children". Which is why censorship is a problem.... The content & conduct of the censors are too often much worse than what they are censoring!

well if you are saying zomby that staff let people get away with too much abuse here... then I definitely agree with you...
That's the beauty of chess.com.
there are private groups here for all tastes with their own rules and no doubt a few with no rules where you can post/discuss whatever you like and not have to fear any censorship.
Some people just want to have the right to not be censored anywhere within the site, which I don't agree with.
Sometimes I have to bite my own tongue, or edit a posting I made or delete one if I think "oops, better not say that 'here' "