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9KingHenry

So I was entering a chess tournament tommorow, and my girlfriend felt bored and wanted to join. Only problem is that she is a complete begginer and doesn't know any tactics.

The worst part is that I'm actually against her tommorow. Should I purposely let her beat me, or should I play an honest game? If so, how can I lose without it looking intentional?

Nekhemevich

I would definitely try to win.

Legendary_Race_Rod

9KingHenry wrote:

So I was entering a chess tournament tommorow, and my girlfriend felt bored and wanted to join. Only problem is that she is a complete begginer and doesn't know any tactics.

The worst part is that I'm actually against her tommorow. Should I purposely let her beat me, or should I play an honest game? If so, how can I lose without it looking intentional?

Do the honourable thing and destroy her.

Crazychessplaya

Go through some basic opening prep with her tonight, and maybe she will survive into the middle game tomorrow.

steve_bute

"... against her tommorow [sic]."

It's taking some effort, but I'm going to let that one go.

Gardenlover239
Airut wrote:

Play honest game. She gains nothing if you let her intentionally win, nor will you.

+1

I would be more insulted if I found out that someone let me win, than I would be if they beat me fairly. Letting someone win is no different from lying.

dpnorman

No. You slaughter her, and then later you go over the game with her and help her learn from it. Never lose on purpose in chess.

patzermike

Go ahead and beat her. She knows she is a beginner. A self-respecting person would feel condescended to by someone who deliberately loses, and she will know. If losing to her would be a successful way to curry favor with her, than get yourself a girlfriend with better character.

incantevoleutopia

You should, but I don't have any girlfriend.

Pulpofeira

How is that such an idea came to your mind, anyway?

ViniMH

Uh, if she's a beginner you should teach her w/e u know not allow her to beat u...thats dumb

cornbeefhashvili
9KingHenry wrote:

So I was entering a chess tournament tommorow, and my girlfriend felt bored and wanted to join. Only problem is that she is a complete begginer and doesn't know any tactics.

The worst part is that I'm actually against her tommorow. Should I purposely let her beat me, or should I play an honest game? If so, how can I lose without it looking intentional?

Play an honest game. If you let her win and she knows you let her win, she may lose all respect for you. I mean, after the game, the sandwich isn't going to make itself.

MSC157

You would get more chances later in the tourney- so play normally tomorrow. You can share your prize at the end with her. :)

Seamus_C_Young

Aside from the issues of competitive integrity that others have mentioned, you'd just be setting her up for an embarrassing loss to a stranger. That can't end well for anyone.

Chesscoaching

Letting her win won't improve your skill or her's. You would both benefit from not trying to throw the game.

Jenium

Do what the Kosintseva sisters would do in that situation. :-)

HalfSicilin

Only if you are able to place a big bet on her:) 

Chesscoaching
Jenium wrote:

Do what the Kosintseva sisters would do in that situation. :-)

Is it a knockout tournament?

A1Rajjpuut

             YES, of course.  And then let her beat you with whips and lead pipes and cigarette burns  . . .  you can't be serious!  Why would you want her to wear the pants unless they were crotchless.

cornbeefhashvili
tkbunny wrote:

give her a fighting chance.  hurry, hook her up with a_l_i_v_e!

Why would you want the girlfriend to receive nothing but ambiguous advice. It would only complicate matters.