In the interests of saving time, here's Monster's response to #1
In other sports, players are rewarded for getting their opponent to violate the rules.
And my rejoinder: The other sports you've cited in the past (tennis and sumo wrestling) don't permit participants to *force* their opponents to violate the rules, where it's a 100 percent certainty that the player will violate the rules as is the case with stalemate. In other sports, the player may be likely to violate the rules, but his destiny remains in his hands. He still has hope, even if it's only a glimmer of hope. Hope is not completely snuffed out.
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Here's why Monster won't say he favors stalemate as an automatic win - he can't get around the fact that the player delivering stalemate is responsible for creating the stalemate position and leaving his opponent without a legal move (and therefore should be punished)
But he won't say that he favors allowing the king to move into check and be captured because that's a much more radical change to the game and would create instances where a player could win while his king was being attacked, which is totally illogical though at least would be worth exploring