Okay, on one hand and speaking as a team member, I too wondered that my colleague's approach seemed a bit too... 'draconian'. It still maybe so.
On the other hand, speaking as an admin now, I have observed with admiration, the effort Eternalhope has put out in organizing the Red Army team match schedule; monitoring our games; coodinating with the group; and posting selected annotated games so that the group and individuals can discuss, and hopefully, improve their play. This is In addition to other contributions to the group & Chess.com all for no reward other than his own personal satisfaction of indulging in his passion for chess and being part of a group of like minded individuals. This group works because people like him give freely of their time and resources.
One would be unjust to take this quantum output forgranted. this is deserving of, at the very least, respect. Eternalhope has a right to try to ensure that that effort is not in vain; your suggestions of a different/better way of going about it are helpful.
Finally, Eternalhope does not act alone. all of the group admins are updated before anything is actioned. and as mentioned notices are sent to the deliquent parties who are a small percentage of the membership, prior to action being taken. Our intent is simply to be the best group we can be. And if members have no respect for our efforts then we will become disillusioned; degenerate into more a 'laissez faire' grouping and loose the ManU / Red Army ethos.
Pling: How about this: "We reserve the right to ban..." In other words, that would be more flexible.
I already expressed my views, but to be more precise:
Block those who time out from joining further team matches. For a few months, first time, and if later repeated a permanent block could be applied.
No banning is required to reduce the number of quitters.
The policy of consulting with you, before resigning a game, is not in accordance with basic chess rules because:
If I win a game or even get a draw - after first having decided to resign the game, but been told by you to continue - I will have recieved help from you.