I just google the stuff I'm unsure about and end up finding articles with annotated games. That's how I make a lot of my choices: http://www.chesstape.com/index.php/advanced/telljohann-vs-adams-london-system-2013-gibraltar-festival-rd2 You can't go wrong with Mickey Adams in these positions.
But anyway you can find a lot of annotated games by just searching for things you aren't sure about. Anotated games would probably be helpful as you can learn a little about openings and a lot about middlegames.
Not studying openings will get you to around 1800-1900 pretty comfortably, but at that point the opposition is so good you're wasting your time and making things to frustrating to not learn openings. Anybody below that you can beat with tactics and general strategy principles fairly easily if you're good enough.
Who are you guys playing? I have never seen a player OTB 1800-1900 that doesnt know his openings, and know them fairly well usually.
Better then me certainly.
I may just be an outlier because openings have always been the worst part of my game, and I usually come out with a disadvantage. To me all my opponents are opening gods.
I just played and lost to a 1800 guy last week, I was out of my opening knowledge at move 2. I asked him after the game what the opening was, and he replied "The London". He had been playing it apparently for 10 years or more, and knew it well. While the opening was not a disaster for me, he pointed out an elementary opening error I made in it regarding his bishop.
It could just be everyones strengths and weaknesses are different - I was lecturing people 200 points higher than me about the endgame and exactly which Queen/pawn endings were drawn and which were wins, and why. I feel great in endgames. Openings - I need lots and lots of work. If I can improve the worst part of my game and make it my best, I think I will improve quite a bit. We could be talking past each other because of a different idea of what constitutes iopening knowledge. Maybe being out of book on move 2 is not what you guys are referring to.