Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I lost access to mty first account where I had a Daily rating of 2225 and a Rapid rating of about 2000 too, but that was some years ago. It's a pain in the neck, isn't it.
Yeah, I quite liked that account.
Same here. I think my mother died or maybe my wife's father. Actually that may have been it. I got very busy and just dropped chess. Came back a couple of years later and my account no longer existed and someone had my user name. He's still got it.
It is more of an illustration that the Caro isn't as solid as some people imagine. It's like there's a belief that it's dull, safe and sensible, whereas it really isn't. People play it to win, same as they try to win with the French or the Sicilian.