"Forget openings and play good moves."
I believe it was Portisch that said:
A mistake in the opening you can recover from. A mistake in the middlegame will hurt you. A mistake in the endgame will kill you.
I think these are two excellent quotes that point out the importance of the opening, compared to the middle, and endgame.
To the OP...theCman558,
Now that you have seen that chess openings, like politics, and religion, can be very polarizing. And just like those things, you will need to decide for yourself, what you want to believe. Whatever opening you decide on, have fun, good luck, and maybe we will meet OTB sometime. Keep me updated on your progress.