YOU .... DO .... NOT .... MEMORIZE!
If you think better players are better due to memorization, you are painfully mistaking.
You need to UNDERSTAND an opening when you study it. Be able to explain in words what BOTH SIDES - not just the side you are playing - are doing and why other moves are bad.
For example, after 1.e4 e6 2.d4 d5 3.e5 c5 4.c3 Nc6, why is 5.Nf3 better than 5.Ne2 to cover the d-pawn? If your answer is "Because my French book gives that move", you don't understand anything.
Memorization is useless. If your opponent deviates, you need to actually understand what is inferior about it. I could reel off the first 10 to 15 moves of just about any opening, but the question is, do I understand how to follow up, and do I understand what to do against other moves? Understand why they are inferior, etc.
For example, I could just reel off the first 13 moves of the Seville Variation of the Grunfeld, but all you have to do is deviate and I would be clueless. I do not understand the Grunfeld. Whereas, you play a weird move in the French or Petroff, you will likely lose against me as those as the two kings pawn openings I truly do understand.
It is not about memorization at all!
How do you guys get to memorize so many openings, and incorperate that into your games? Both as white and black? Is that just by reading some kind of books, the chess.com openings tab, etc.?