Can't force an open position. Tough luck! I speak as a huge advocate of 1.d4, 1.c4, and 1.Nf3.
White controls that. For example, in the King's Indian, he can open up with the Four Pawns, or lead to an extremely closed position with the Classical. In the Grunfeld, the Exchange tends to open up, the Russian Variation along with Bf4 lines or e3 lines tend to remain closed.
If you can't play both open and closed positions, you aren't very good at all. Suck it up and learn how to play chess, not 5% of it!
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