convincing friends to get into vairiants?

I literally hate bug and crazy house, but I adore lots of other variants.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_chess_variants

What is it exactly that they don't like about bug/crazyhouse? If you're going to get them into variants in general, I'd always start with Fischerrandom. It's a nice light variant, you really can't go wrong with it. If they don't like the idea of Fischerrandom, that should tell you that they won't stomach anything heavier.
@chesssdotcomv3sucks you're talking about Finesse, right? You're the first person I've seen that's mentioned it. What didn't you like about it?
Any tips or ways I can maybe try to persuade them into it?