Is the CM title or the NM titles more honorable or prouder to display?
preferably CM as its a FIDE title and carries a lot more weight when playing around the world in competitions or coaching. I like the NM title as its a very “simple” title that i would argue is the most “american” title of all time in the sense that anyone can attain it within 2-4 years at a young age if they put in the work. that being said for CM the reason why its a lot more difficult is due to the cultural impact and lack of FIDE events within the USA to make significant improvement in 2 years with a lot of rating growth. you are more likely to gain a lot of national rating (USCF in my case) than FIDE rating given the availability of those events so for me that makes it more difficult and important to show than NM but i wouldn’t be super proud of it compared to FM or IM
Do you recognize patterns in society or just in chess?
don't really know what you mean by that but just chess