It appears that the fact the game is white the colour vs black the colour is troublesome to you.
Would it not be easier to push for a change of colours (e.g. yellow vs purple, red vs green)?
What about draught/checkers where the player with black pieces (or the player with the darker colour pieces) play first? Does it also need to be modified?
Take Philidor's book from France in the 1740s, Howard Staunton's book in England from the 1840s. There are Russian books and U.S. books from this period and they are all in the same boat til the 1880s. In Berlin, a group of chess masters called the Berlin Pleiades, including Bledow, und der Lasa, and von Bilguer, started to standardize white as always playing first. They founded a magazine, wrote a big chess analysis book, and began to push it overseas. Wilhelm Steinitz also continued this push. In his writings he talks about white humans as naturally superior and therefore deserved to go first. This is why I need a German-speaker to look at some of these documents. :)