Sorry if I didn't use the right words...I already anticipated that my English is not that good to express what I really want to say.;)
For the software you can download I will send you a private message as I don't want to promote it here...(it's clear that you can use for right things but also for bad so I see no reason to make it accessible here)
Embarrassed may be the wrong word, but they certainly try to avoid getting caught, and do not like it at all when they do.