You misunderstand. I almost never message anyone, I was looking for examples of when people are intentionally rude to you in the chat for no reason only to have it backfire or something of the like
Like Post #2 said. You enjoy seeing people unhappy/miserable. Turn off the internet, and read a book for awhile.
Negative. I enjoy a chat-less game or one in which I compliment my opponent (or vise-versa) for unexpected moves. Enjoying seeing people unhappy/miserable would be to relish in beating a kid OTB and seeing him cry, or to play against somebody who says "darn" after they loss. That is a far cry from finding it humorous when people break the rules of Chess.com by taunting/stalling in games for no reason. I am not a very strong player for example, so to be accused of cheating when something like 1/5 of my moves are blunders would display ignorance or hubris, not misery.
Other good examples are shown above. Playing into racial/national stereotypes (anat743) or having your opponent not realize forced draws are a good defense (checkmateohwait) fit the bill for me at least.
also thx