I Feel Like I'm The Most Annoying Member In This Forum

If you really didnt care about people's opinions or validation of others, then you wouldn't have made this forum

Facts. Sorry if I wasted a thread here.

I've been very active in these forums for about two months now. I doubt that anyone's been more active. I know most of the regular contributors. I don't know you at all. I don't recall a single comment made by you, annoying or otherwise, or a single thread.

Saying you're the most annoying is saying you've had the loudest voice. You haven't even whispered.

I think there might be a deep rooted issue that you may need to seek professional advice for if you feel this way. it could be anxiety, insecurities or another condition. I've been there myself, i have autism and felt like everyone hated me and i didn't belong in social groups. i actually left my position as moderator for a year for the same thing and then realised it was all in my head. You are not hated, you seem like a nice person and i hope you can come here and feel like you are accepted, which you are

Delaci007 and Pianojames: Thank you both for your comments. I'm glad you two don't find me annoying in this forum. I just don't like the bullcrap and toxicity vibes that I observe in this forum.

It's not a gathering of angels, no, but the forums are well moderated. If you're more sensitive than most, your best bet would be to avoid topics that generate heat, pretty much the opposite of what I do. Or find a club with an atmosphere that better suits you. There are hundreds to choose from, and some are moderated very heavily.

Delcai007: I'm in so many clubs that I lost count and they're very friendly that I'm in. Thank you for the advice. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Okay, so why are you here? You're campaigning for more heavy-handed moderation? What? It's like going to a party just to tell everyone how much you dislike their company.

I'm here to play chess. That's all.

But not just to play chess. You're reading and commenting in forums you claim to think are garbage. What exactly is the point of this thread, for example? It isn't about you playing chess.

I'm sorry but I didn't say the forums are garbage. I just don't like the toxicity vibes in this forum but like you say before you just give me sound advice to avoid topics that give heat and join clubs which I did. I know exactly what I'm talking about.

Also if I did say that Chess.com was garbage then I wouldn't be in this forum at all.

Not chess.com: these forums

Not "garbage", "bullcrap and toxicity"

It's fine. But it's a pet peeve of mine.

Chess.com haters.

People complaining about the platform, about the Fair Play team and the cheat detection system, about the forums and how they're moderated, about membership fees... etc, etc. etc,

They choose to play here, most for free.

But can't stop complaining.

Delcai007: I lost more than 50 chess games on this platform, and I have never accused anyone, and I do mean anyone, of cheating.

Expect validation is a problem