Is it bad chess etiquette to request a rematch if you have just won?

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ChrisZifo

Is it bad chess etiquette to request a rematch if you have just won?

I literally never do this, but many people seem to-- especially on Blitz. I would only ever request a rematch if I have lost or drawn, in an unlucky manner.  

Requesting a rematch after you have won kind of seems like "you are easy, give more ratings points please".  It is annoying, especially cos I usually want to run the game review and work out why I just lost.

Also, have any of you noticed, that on average, players on Rapid (10-0 and 15-10) are better sportsmen than Blitz players?  Far less of the dumb messages and letting the clock run down

Maximilian_derWolf

Yeah Blitz player are more toxic than the others . And I think it is very bad chess etiquette.

landloch

If it was a close game, then a rematch request could mean they think you're a good and interesting opponent. A request after a blowout win is pretty dodgy, though.

Slowthfish

Yes, I think it's bad etiquette. Of course they can do it, but most want easy points, yes. I've asked some of them and they confirm this point. Some also mock on you.

tygxc

Rematches... do not ask, do not grant.

ChrisZifo
landloch wrote:

If it was a close game, then a rematch request could mean they think you're a good and interesting opponent. A request after a blowout win is pretty dodgy, though.

yeah sure, but they could use the chat and say "good game, very close match! you want to try another?"

I guess in Blitz there is less time

Laskersnephew

No! Your opponent can decline if he doesn't want to play you again. (Declining a rematch offer, regardless of the result of the previous game, is perfectly good etiquette too!)

bigD521
ChrisZifo wrote:
landloch wrote:

If it was a close game, then a rematch request could mean they think you're a good and interesting opponent. A request after a blowout win is pretty dodgy, though.

yeah sure, but they could use the chat and say "good game, very close match! you want to try another?"

I guess in Blitz there is less time

Very rare, but when a game is t

bigD521
bigD521 wrote:
ChrisZifo wrote:
landloch wrote:

If it was a close game, then a rematch request could mean they think you're a good and interesting opponent. A request after a blowout win is pretty dodgy, though.

yeah sure, but they could use the chat and say "good game, very close match! you want to try another?"

I guess in Blitz there is less time

If a game was that good I would propose further games during the game, before it was understood who would win. These were very rare occurrences.

Wits-end

No, it is not bad etiquette. It never hurts to ask. Just don't be upset if your request is ignored. Many people seem to think that asking is somehow the cardinal sin, it isn't. It isn't a reflection on you either most likely. Too much is made of it in my opinion.

hermanjohnell

It´s good form to offer a vanquished opponent the chance for revenge.

LITO13mtz
I agree
bigD521

@Wits-end ------Just don't be upset if your request is ignored. Many people seem to think that asking is somehow the cardinal sin, it isn't. It isn't a reflection on you either most likely. Too much is made of it in my opinion.---------

 I pretty much agree with this portion. Playing with good sportsmanship, etiquette, along with in a gentlemanly manner is promoted. To me, these boil down to pretty much to consideration of one's opponent. Letting the clock run out, harassment, stalling, etc. shows lack of consideration. The closer one gets to utterly destroying one's opponent, the rematch request becomes a lack of consideration for one's opponent. Perhaps this a small thing, yet it is pertinent in my opinion. Personally a request doesn't bother me, but it not something I would do.