Well... I've posted about this some time ago (like many others), and got no serious answer. Just in case you feel like it, you can read my old post.
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/community/the-numbers-behind-tournament-vacation-time
I believe what most of us are asking for is to reconsider the vacation time on TOURNAMENTS in particular.
Concerning this "we can't make everyone happy" concept... it IS true, but I understand the democratic method is to make the mayority of people happy. How do we know how many ppl in this site want to change the vacation time on tourneys? nothing easier.. Put it to VOTE!
btw I love this site, but it can still get better.
Do you think automatic time out protection is appropriate?
I think it is appropriate but people can abuse it. When they need more time to think they use vacation time and that is not the purpose of vacation time. A good sport uses the automatic time out protection only when it is impossible to make the move in time.
Unfortunately, there appear to be some people who aren't good sports, and this is where one of the problems arises. Please note that I am not accusing you of being one of these people - from the reasonable language you use in your posts you are clearly a reasonable person and no doubt a good sport as well.
In post 13 you said "you agree to a certain time per move" - I didn't agree to more than 3 days per move, but this is what auto-timeout protection allows. In post 8 you suggested that if I want people to take less time per move then I should start a tournament of faster players (which is a good idea by the way), so by the same reasoning, if someone thinks they might take longer than 3 days for a move then they shouldn't enter 3 day per move tournaments. This is the nuisance that affects everyone in the tournament, not just me, and this is what I want adjusted, not the time per move.