As I am playing a tournament (turn based 3d/move) game where at move 42 I won his Q and was left with B, N, Q, 4 pawns vs his K and blocked 1 pawn. He is facing mate in one, and leading up to this point he was making multiple moves every day. I kindly sent a message saying that I will often times look for a stalemate in a severly lost position, but if nothing presents itself for the trap of one, I resign out of ettiquite for the game and for the others in the event.
His reply was that I must not be very good at all as it took until move 59 to get to the mate in one position. He posted the comment, but didnt make his move and has left his clock run down for the last 2 days. I assume he will either time out or resign just before he is given a time out loss.
Annoying, classless, and a waste of all the tournament's players time.
Cheers,
Louprechaun
One thing about Resignation Etiquette every chess player should know:
If you're 1 move from being checkmated, and you know it, it is VERY bad etiquette to resign before your opponent wins. Players are semi-obligated to move anyway, as mentioned by top-level players.
That is not to say that you should let your opponent take you to the cleaners. I'm saying that if there is no potential mate within the next couple moves and you are in a totally lost position, feel free to resign with some sportsmanship. But to resign the second before you lose is highly frowned upon in most levels of chess.
I would never have thought that to resign would be considered bad form, whatever the circumstance. You learn something new every day. Thanks for the tip.
If you want to accept that tip as good advice, you can, but I don't think many would agree that it's good advice. It is wierd when an opponent plays out a completely lost game for 20 moves, only to resign a move before mate, but a win is a win, and both ways of winning are equally satisfying to me.