I wasn't allowed to go 'on vacation' as it was my move in some of the games - the reason I wanted go 'on vacation' anyway. Hence I lost the games.
But as someone who does not abuse the vacation facility (I have as yet taken no vacation days at all)
Hang on. You say that you want to take a vacation because it's your move in some of your games, then say that you never abuse the vacation option. Sorry if I'm not seeing something, but that sounds a bit off to me.
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