Video series welcoming

I have never looked at your material until now but the video seemed fine as far is it goes so I wish you good luck with the series.

As to why people hate you so much, a very recent experience of my own suggests to me that some people are just hateful per se, that is to say they are simply mean unpleasant people who would have a go at someone else if it was not you.

A friend of mine has just had the most awful things posted about her in her profile for no good reason and  hopefully the poster will be thrown off here.

I have had a look at some of your other threads and you handle yourself very well despite having done nothing at all to deserve such abuse.

As a CBT therapist part time I can only suggest that as you seem like a nice lad, try this :  picture how unhappy and miserable the person who is insulting you must be, continue to deal with them in the way you have and take it from me that I have seen nothing you have done that merits such behaviour.

At the end of the day if it gets too bad report them.

I have to say though that your response to IRONLUNGCANCER was out of the top draw.

I imagine that if he takes some sort of bizarre pleasure insulting you in that way he is more than likely a very unhappy mean spirited person, reason enough I am afraid to say, to explain why he "hates " you.

Good luck with the videos, it would seem prudent unfortunately to expect that some people are going to be rude to you about them, but as I say it is more likely that it is something about their personality and circumstances that makes them do this.

 If it still bothers you, have someone you trust look at the videos and if they say it is fine do not let the nasty people on here put you off.

It seems inevitable they will appear just as they would on any other type of site such as a social site like facebook.

So do not internalise ( that is think there must be something wrong with you) because of some peoples nastiness, externalise and ask yourself " Is this person happy, content etc and what are they feeling at the moment ?"

 Hatred does not taste very nice to the person who is doing the hating but nonetheless some people seem to thrive on it. If you are able to keep yourself confident in the face of it you will be fine.

Sorry to post a book lol, but it is a pertinent issue to me and a friend at the moment.

Keep up the good work

Paula J xx

When is the next video coming?  I think you should post it here instead of a new thread so it's easier to keep up.  Ignore the haters because at least you are doing something creative.